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Military to a Civilian Career:
More
Plan ahead to minimize adjustment problems
for you and your family.
Life-style changes are among the first of the transition
issues you will face. By hard work and years of dedicated
service you have earned certain benefits and privileges
of rank, some of which extend to members of your family. When
you separate, these normal and customary courtesies are
no longer available. For example, access to base
personnel and services becomes particularly difficult for
the spouse and family members. A simple appointment
with the base doctor or dentist may become a major ordeal
in negotiation and diplomacy.
There may be a substantial change in take-home pay after
separation. You may need to relocate to be where
jobs are, which may mean the loss of income from the spouse's
job. Together, these may affect the kind of financing
you can receive for housing in the new location.
The change from Col. or Sgt. Smith to plain Mr. or Ms.
Smith may be the most troublesome of the emotional and
psychological issues you face. The comfortable routine
and prescribed duties, your rank, and the way people relate
to you -- define your identity -- and all of these will
be gone.
To minimize the impact of these problems,
- Begin planning your departure from the military as
much as a year in advance.
- Make a list of the potential negative consequences
of your decision to leavethe military. And, write
down others as you think of them. Then, plan for
how you will cope with each one, if it occurs. Scientific
studies of decision-making show that this is a very important
and helpful step. See "Quality Decision-Making" for
more.
- Keep in contact with military families who have successfully
establishedthemselves in civilian life. They can
be very helpful in giving advice on dealing with the
stress and tips on how to simplify the transition.
- Use the base family support center. They have
experience counselors available to help you and your
family deal with these issues.
- Consider getting help from a professional career counselor. The
military will provide you with some assistance, but you
(and your spouse) will likely benefit from the greater
depth and extent of a professional counselor in help
with career and other transitional issues.
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